By Alliance Bora
Most times I think am one of the very few people who still believe in the value of marriage. With the changing trends, I would not blame anyone for thinking marriage is useless because society and social media prove to us every single day that marriage is just a wastage of time and money.
After giving it a thought, I came up with the belief that the problem most of the times is not marriage the institution but the married. Marriage remains the same and still holds the same importance but people have duplicated it. Am not good at Bible verses but I at least know that somewhere in the Bible a certain verse says, “What God has put together let no man put asunder.’'
Of course civilization and people's right are important but what's the use of marrying someone for only a month and divorce. All that time wasted. I know people change, things fall apart and sometimes what we expected doesn't happen but overcoming such is what makes marriage worthwhile, it's the essence of marriage.
After success, people don't remember the times things were easy but those times things were really hard that they wanted to give up. How will the coming generations be if children don't grow up in united and loving families with their parents? Once people separate everything built up comes crumbling down. How will development ever happen with such?

Marry the person you're sure to spend the rest of your life with-sometimes love is not enough. the heart sometimes falls for people who can't build families yet at a certain point all of us want to settle down and raise kids. Children become good citizens when they grow up in complete families.